This is how I deal with trolls....

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 ๐Ÿ“ฑThe good thing about social media is the connection.

The challenge....is the trolls.๐ŸงŸโ€โ™‚๏ธ

There are some people who wish to tell you how to dress, live, love, and believe. They donโ€™t encourage self expression or self acceptance. They encourage fear, self hatred and control.๐Ÿง›๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿง›๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐ŸงŸโ€โ™€๏ธ

But hereโ€™s a secret...

YOU GIVE OUT WHAT YOU POSSESS.

If you possess self love, self acceptance, and internal fairness- you encourage others to love themselves and accept all of their flaws and their strengths.๐Ÿง–๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ

Itโ€™s when you feel like YOU are bad or YOU are not validated or accepted or YOU are not worthy that you then spew that out to others.๐Ÿฆ‚

So when I get hate from others now, I feel the sting and the panic but then I remind myself.... that this person is reflecting their OWN self hate and invalidation. This comment or DM isnโ€™t about me. Itโ€™s about their own struggles and because they havenโ€™t done the work to love themselves....they look for an OUTSIDE SOURCE to focus their hate on.

So, #blockthehate and #lovewhoyouare

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL and WORTHY. Your experiences are VALID. And if you are someone who pushes negative ๐Ÿ‘Ž๐Ÿพ thoughts on others....see this as your sign to refocus on loving who you are.

Because what bothers you about someone else is often what you donโ€™t like or havenโ€™t accepted about yourself. โœŒ๐Ÿฝ

What do you think? Let me know over on my instagram!

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